As we all are struggling to accept our loss, let us celebrate Trey's life, his spirit, his stories, his friendship and how he impacted each of us in our lives.
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Wow what to say about Trey Hall, such an inspirational person. I still can’t believe he is no longer with us. I was just thinking a few days ago that I need Trey to sign my copy of his book. Trey has been a part of my life for nearly as long as I’ve been in the U.S. He is the reason I am in the marketing field. As CMO he gave me my first opportunity in the marketing department over 13 years ago, since then I pursued a degree in marketing and he was the one of the first people I called when I graduated to thank him for all of his support. I cherished the times I worked directly with Trey, and even after changing companies and positions over his career, he always found the opportunity to work with us again.
ReplyDeleteI remember when my son was born 10 years ago, the marketing department was always working at above top speed, and I came to him when my wife was beginning to go into labor to tell him about things on our plate that needed attention in my absence, he was shocked and said “What are you doing here? Go! Get out of here!” That was the kind of person Trey was, kind, patient, never selfish, gave to his friends and his community, very proud of his family, and never spoke ill of anybody. He always saw the good in people and believed in their abilities.
I feel privileged to have known Trey Hall, a great mentor, dear friend, and an amazing human being. My only regret is that I didn’t see him more often these past few years. We still can’t fathom this great loss, we are in shock. Trey, you will truly be missed.
Trey and I met in 1975 when we were sophomores at JJ Pearce HS in Richardson, TX. He was kind, funny, articulate, charming and, even back then, inspirational to many. We reconnected through FB a few years ago and I was happy to hear his story through his book. He is one of those people we meet in life that impact the world and make it a better place. May God bless and watch over you and your family during this difficult time in your lives. Bret Gerard
ReplyDeleteWhen Trey was in the Chatfield Ward Bishopric he and Garrett were doing their best to set me apart as a new Young Women leader... except that Trey couldn't stop laughing. Every time, he began by saying my full name, Cody Candy Roper. And every time, it began as a suppressed chuckle and built into a full blown belly laugh. After four or five tries to get through saying my name, Garrett had to take over and get 'er done. That's when I knew Trey and I were tight. Best Bishopric ever.
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ReplyDeleteWhen Trey introduced a candidate to me to hire her as a financial analyst,he started going into details of how the candidate is the most amazing business analyst ever. (Complimenting others from the heart came naturally to him). But then he immediately went on to say, "and she skis like a boy." I was not sure I heard him right. He repeated himself and explained himself. At that point I learned that the candidate has earned the highest level of endorsement that one could earn from Trey.
If you have not watch the video interview on Trey's book, please watch it. You will be amazed by how calmly he describes his injury from the bike accident. What is even more amazing is when he sees that the interviewer is uncomfortable with the injury details (like any one of us would be), Trey dialed it up with an example. I will let you discover that in the video but that is something only he could pull off.
Over the years I learned that there was a simple young child in him and that made all these expressions, that only he could pull off, so authentic.
Trey and I grew up together at Pizza Hut some 20 years ago. But it seems like just yesterday when a young Mr. Hall so adeptly managed Pizza Hut's marketing calendar and all the challenges that came with it. Trey was perfectly suited for the job - such an authentic guy who could get even the biggest egos to steer in the same direction.
ReplyDeleteTrey and I became even closer in the last 10 years as sons of Colorado. We often got together to share career wins and challenges. With Trey, you could always count on a hand shake, hug, and, when needed, a shoulder to cry on. So it was only natural for me to reach out to Trey some six months ago when I decided to start my own venture. I remember leaving lunch on cloud nine. He was so positive and supportive. It's a feeling I carry to this day and will carry for years to come.
When I heard the news late Monday afternoon, I walked over to my book shelf and pulled out Trey's book. I flipped to the page that he signed. He called me a "good man".
And now it's my turn to say - Trey, you are and will always be a good man.
I miss you forever.
It’s not till someone is gone that you truly reflect on what impact they had on your life. Beyond being one of the kindest and most cheerful people I have ever worked with, Trey was the model of how I try to work with others. To manage and collaborate with patience, kindness, respect…and always a smile and level head.
ReplyDeleteI remember him explaining a file he had on his desk of hate mail he had received over his career – and when I asked why he kept them he said that they were markers in his career just like the accolades were – and given distance you could learn from them – always a level head.
He was a wonderful manager, mentor, and man. My condolences and prayers go out to his family.
I met Trey during his Pizza Hut years in Wichita. I worked for a franchisee but a group of friends used to ride bikes very early during the week prior to work. One morning I returned home from a ride and I started to receive phone calls from friends asking if I was okay. That morning Trey and another Pizza Hut friend Ken weren't with our group. I found out later that morning they were both seriously hurt when a car driven by an impaired driver cut across the center line in front of them injured both Trey and Ken very seriously. I visited both during their long hospital stays and I know they had several surgeries and months of rehab. I understand they both got back up on the horse and rode again.
ReplyDeleteI remember Trey as a great riding partner, always friendly, always positive and always ready to pull the pack when it was his turn - he was very strong and we all had to suck it up when he led. I have lost track of both Trey and Ken after they left Wichita, but the world lost a good one in Trey, especially so young. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
I met Trey at BYU. He joined the church while living in our ward at Raintree. Trilby, Trey, Ann and I all went on missions at the same time. We were in the MTC together. Trey wrote the most hilarious letters about his time in Taiwan. He also tried to teach me to ski. He knew I was hopeless. I've also had the opportunity to go on a few bike rides with Trey and Ann. Trey you are so awesome, funny, smart and kind. We will miss you and I will cherish my memories of you. Hugs and prayers to Ann, Ryan and Dallin.
ReplyDeleteFrom the first time I met Trey I have benefitted from his positive energy, understanding and ability to see things far more clearly than I could. We would regularly have lunches to discuss family, our work, the gospel and any other number of fun items. I always left those meetings with my re-focused and energized to think big and with an unusual clarity. I will miss Trey as a friend, a role-model and as a mentor. God-speed my friend and to Ann, Ryan and Dallin - please let me know what I can do to help you.
ReplyDeleteTrey went on a bike trip with my son Christian Elkins. Christian really liked him and also Mike Jones. I think he had a special gift to connect with kids and my boy needed that. I was so grateful to him for giving Christian that positive memory of being with the young men.
ReplyDeleteWe are all still in shock at how suddenly Trey has been taken from us. But after a few days of reflection, and witnessing the eloquent tributes at the service by Dylan and Ryan, I think I can actually gather a few thought here. Ann, I have said several times that I was so glad Trey decided to ride with you Monday, instead of Don and the other guys. In hindsight that may not have come out the way I meant it to. I want to make sure you know it is not because I am glad Don was spared witnessing the death of his dear friend. Nor am I glad that you had to witness it either. What I am glad about is that Trey spent his last moments on this earth with you.
ReplyDeleteA lot has been made of the fact that Trey died while cycling; an activity that meant so much to him. People make off-hand comments all the time like “When it’s my turn to go, I hope I’m playing golf, or skiing, or reading a good book, or whatever”. For all I know, Trey might have even said so himself about biking. In hindsight though, I find far less comfort in what Trey was doing when he died, then I do in who he was doing it with. Trey loved cycling, he loved skiing, and much much more. He was dedicated and passionate about so many things that he did and the people he did them with. But Ann, everything pales in comparison to his love for you. Trey packed so much living and loving into his 55 years on this earth, but there is no doubt that loving you was his greatest treasure. So I will say it again: For Trey, I am so glad that you were with him when he passed from this earth. At that moment, being with you is the only thing that would have mattered to him.
I know, that you know, his love is still with you. It will sustain you until you meet again. It will rest on the shoulders of you and your boys until you are all together again. And even then it will remain.
In the months and years until that time, should you ever feel the need of someone else that knows and loves Trey, please don’t hesitate to call on us. We will be missing him too.
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DeleteTrey was one of our best friends. He was a spiritual and social lifeline for me. We are still in shock, heartbroken and devastated by his passing. When we received the news last Monday Morning we rushed down from the mountains to be at his dear wife’s side. We shared story after story of this remarkable man. He was the best this world has to offer. Recently we invited Trey and Ann to join us for a powder day skiing. They had to pass because it was their month to clean the church. The conversation went like this…..Trey! you are the bishop of a singles ward there are plenty of YSA’s to clean the church….Trey responded “Well we make breakfast after for all that show up and they really look forward to it. We can’t let them down.”….so Trey and Ann cleaned, fed the singles and we skied. The Saturday of Mother’s day weekend I was supposed to ski with Trey, our spouses were out of town and it was a powder day! I was so excited I couldn’t sleep and then the text came from Trey…”Karin we have a dear friend who is going to pass any day now. I have been asked by her husband to do some yard work at their house tomorrow at 10:00am in preparation for a gathering once she goes. I have to bail. I have to attend to these dear friends so sorry”. I answered not can I help with the yardwork, but with every crying bawling emotican because of the powder day missed……His reply to me….. “Yes it is extremely sad on so many levels. I am about to go weeding in the rain”. If you are reading this you know there were few things Trey Loved as much as Ann and a Powder Day skiing, yet, he always made the more important decision and sacrifice to serve. Trey was the quintessential Genuine person. He left nothing behind…..there were no facades no personal agendas, he was always about the Lords work first. He always made the better decision. He always knew the right thing to do. He has left this world a better place and has had a positive impact on all who were privileged to know him. We will miss him every day, but we are so thankful to have known and loved him. Ann, Ryan, and Dallin we love you so much and are blessed to have you as friends. We are so sorry for your loss we are praying for comfort for all of us. We understand the tremendous void this leaves in your lives. We are here for you…...forever.
ReplyDeleteI didn't know Trey well, but I did edit his book, Pedal Forward. He was so wonderful to work with, and his book was very inspiring. I'm terribly sorry to hear of his sudden passing, and I'm thinking of his friends and family. All my best to you.
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ReplyDeleteA little over a year ago I lost my mother in law. In the last months of her life we were able to take the time to talk with her a lot and tell her everything we wanted to, and have her tell us everything she wanted to. We were very fortunate. During this time she said something that has really stuck with me. It was something that was so simple yet so profound. I have shared this with several people that have gone through the loss of a loved one in the last year. What she said was this - Every day you should have 3 goals. 1) Get outdoors 2) Be social 3) Be active
ReplyDeleteAfter learning of Trey's passing about a month ago I had to again remind myself of these three things and how much Trey would have liked it and believed it in. Trey was the first person I worked for out of college at Boston Market. Trey was the person I can credit for introducing me to the love of my life. Trey was the person that both my husband and I turned to when we moved to Dallas a few years ago and didn't know anyone in Dallas. He was an amazing person with a huge heart and an even bigger personality. He will really be incredibly missed.
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